Counselling & Psychotherapy
These resources can help you at stressful times.
Quality communication with someone who cares about you is always a good option.
Belly breathing for calming
1. Sit or lie flat in a comfortable position.
2. Put one hand on your belly just below your ribs and the other hand on your chest.
3. Take a deep breath in through your nose, and let your belly push your hand out. …
4. Breathe out through pursed lips as if you were whistling. …
5. Do this breathing 3 to 10 times.
Coping with panic
Get out of your head, get into your body.
With each breath, shift your attention onto what is happening externally.
Activate your senses. Look around yourself, listen to the sounds, touch your surroundings, notice what smell passes into your nostrils, what taste do you have in your mouth ?
If you are catastrophizing in your thinking:
1) Say “Stop” out loud. Remember the sound a CD makes when it’s scratched?
2) Focus on ‘what is,’ rather than ‘what if. ‘
3) Get physical. Stomp, jump, shake.
Cognitive Behavioural exercise for refocussing
The following is extracted from “the HeartMath Solution”
The head can easily get locked into set patterns. If an old emotion has become familiar, we often respond to new, similar situations with the same emotion, whether it makes sense or not.
By shifting focus toward your heart and away from whatever problem you face, you divert energy from your perception of the problem
1. Make a sincere effort to shift your focus away from your racing mind or disturbed emotions to the area around your heart. You can pretend that you’re breathing through your heart to help focus your energy in this area. Keep your focus there for ten seconds or more.
2. Recall a positive, fun feeling or time you’ve had in life and attempt to re-experience it.
3. Now, using your intuition, common sense and sincerity – ask yourself, what would be a more caring and efficient behaviour in response to the situation, one that will minimize future stress, for yourself and anyone else involved?
Emotional energy grounding
This exercise comes courtesy of Alyse Young, energy intuitive and shaman, author of “Talk to me”.
The entire clip is over an hour long and well worth it, but the short grounding exercise segment starts about 7 mInutes in.
Spiritual Online Activation Retreat
Free anonymous online mental health support
Though based in the UK, it is also available to people living in Auckland. You will need an Auckland post code.
For NZ based support, a simple internet search will give you more options